Picture yourself in this scenario:
You just got back to your computer and are anxiously trying to get into your e-mail to see if you've received feedback yet from the company you interviewed with last week. As soon as you login the company's e-mail address instantly jumps out at you and you cannot click on the message fast enough to see what it says. You begin reading the words, "We enjoyed meeting with you and learning about your career path...." You then read a little further and you see, "...but at this time we have decided to pursue other avenues." You're not just devastated, you are mad. You can't understand why they didn't pick you. This is natural...we all want to understand why weren't picked for something we were so excited
about. However, it is important that you not let the situation get you so down that you lose your confidence. Instead use this as a learning opportunity. Below, I have outlined for you some of the Do's and Don'ts of how to respond after receiving a rejection letter or phone call.
- DON'T instantly pick up the phone and call the hiring manager to demand an explanation for not being selected for the job opening.
- DON'T call all of your friends and tell them what a bad company XYZ company is because they didn't hire you for your dream job.
- DON'T try to replay the entire interview back in your head and analyze every answer you provided.
- DO ask politely for further feedback on your interview. Even if the company decided not to fill the position they may still be able to provide you with valuable feedback that you can transfer to future interviews as you continue your Indianapolis job search.
- DO ask where other candidates more closely hit the mark and you maybe fell a little short. Maybe it is the computer skills needed for the position and you can easily take a couple of online courses to improve your skills and knowledge. Maybe other candidates had a certification that you do not, but have been contemplating going after. Not only will this help you further develop yourself for future opportunities, but it will also give you an idea of hiring trends in your industry.
- DO write down the good answers that you provided to questions, along with those that you could have worded a little differently. This will help in your preparation for your next interview. Also, if you are working with an Indianapolis staffing firm, ask them if you can run some answers past them to get more feedback.
As I discussed in a previous 
First of all I want to apologize if you haven’t heard from me during these last few months.
Have you said those words recently? I know I have! Whether its sharing an app that tracks my exercise for the week or discussing the new CareerBuilder app which gives Indianapolis employers and recruiters a chance to review resumes on their smart phones, we are all talking about our smart phones. It seems that every company is coming out with an app for something! With the new technology it seems that we can't do anything without our smart phone in our hand...let's face it according to this
current "pulse" of the Indianapolis job market. Wow...what a tough question to answer. This is literally the million dollar question that we get asked every day. I knew I couldn't respond with, "It depends", but that is honestly what I wanted to say. The current hiring trends and overall health of the Indianapolis job market vary greatly based on industry and functional area. I prefaced my comments to Ed by saying that my viewpoint is exclusive to what we see, hear, and experience through our clients and candidates. Although not all-inclusive, I do feel like we interact with a variety of industries and functional areas to give a sound response.
I am not even going to comment on the heat this week, because you all know exactly how hot it is out there and you don't need me to update you on that news. I will, however, pass along some news about hot dogs, meeting hell and Indy being a hot place to live and work. Of course, the news update would not be complete without some news about FMLA, some survey results and the NLRB. Enjoy a cold one while you catch up on your weekly news!